pretend, pretence

hey peepo.
hope you all are doing fine with the crazy weather these few days!






had a talk with one of my friend today.
kinda worked out well for the both of us,
shared our p.o.v and thoughts.


it's like..
the world today is so "fake", in a way.
everywhere you go, you can see people putting up pretences.

nice to you on the surface
might be jabbing you the next moment behind your back.


or the mouth is actually saying "yeah, ohh ok~"
and in the mind it actually goes "ohh, damn you".
kind of sad isn't it?


frankly,
how many of you make fair judgements with no bias or tweaked impressions?

personally, i am proud to say that i actually do that 90% of the time.
no one is perfect, neither am I

however, before every judgement i make, i question myself this

"Am I in the position to make that judgement?"



if it's a bad impression, then this pop out in my mind.

"Have i done something similar? Did i change? otherwise why am I critisizing others?"





it's some sort of a self reflection for me i would say.

This world contains too much controversy.
every little disagreement can sparke off a dispute, argument or even a furore.


what is right and what is wrong?


it all depends on the majority and the norm i guess.

it's natural and inevitable for everyone to create different judgements and impressions.



however, it'll be nice to just do a sort of a little self-reflection before developing that thought/judgement.

if you formed a bad impression on someone yet you once carried out that act that gave you that bad impression, then on what grounds are you to judge on that act?


it all requires maturity, a sense of self-reflection and being humble i would say.
it requires time in cultivating these habits
which im in the process of doing so too.
however, i dont think im seeing much of this sight.
am i wrong to say that?

i would love someone to prove me wrong on that.




what i believe,
as long as you do reflect upon your actions and do make a change over the mistakes
then believe in your own actions.

whatever criticism/compliments, take it in.
reflect upon it.
Throw out the ones that just spells crap.

it's easy recognising those that carries no weight in them,
looking at who made the comments.

and,
thanks those who knock you down in your path.
because he had just made you into a stronger person.






Cheers(: